My Breast Cancer Survivor Story
Developing cancer was the last thing on my mind — but once it came, it became the
main thing in my life. Not in a negative way, but in a surprisingly positive one.
Everything started when I found a lump in my breast while showering. Deep down, I knew right away it was most likely cancer.
I was diagnosed at age 36, with four young children, with breast cancer. After tests and a
biopsy confirmed it, I began treatment by having a double mastectomy.
Things didn’t go exactly as planned — a week later, I developed a blood hematoma and
needed emergency surgery. I remember feeling so bad calling my doctor… especially
because it was Thanksgiving morning! My sister rushed me down the freeway,
sacrificing her own holiday, and I made sure to thank every hospital staff member I saw
that day.
Then came chemo! As I went through treatment, I realized there were so many things I
hadn’t known — especially about how to talk to my kids about what was happening.
That inspired me to write my own children’s book, When My Mom Had Cancer, to help
kids understand what to expect when their mom goes through treatment. Some days I’d
be sitting in the chemo chair with medicine flowing into my port, and that night I’d be at
home working on the story, and layout. It gave me something wonderful to focus on and
helped me stay positive.
After radiation, I was deeply grateful for my amazing team of doctors, nurses, and staff
— and of course, my loving family. They encouraged me, kept me laughing, and even
brainstormed business ideas with me. I don’t think I’ve ever made as much small talk
with strangers as I did during treatment — it’s a crash course in socializing!
Now, I run a small business creating children’s books, gifts, and stationery, and I have
the privilege of supporting others in their cancer journeys.
Having cancer has truly changed my life for the better. I have no fear now — life is so
precious and short. There is nothing to fear in trying something new, taking leaps of
faith, and choosing positivity during hard times.
I can’t wait for what the future holds! I know that because I have gone through the trial of breast cancer, I can move forward with any challenge.
Each new project, book, and product I create comes with gratitude, resilience, and faith—
and I’m excited to keep sharing that light with others.